Aspasia is back! We recorded this right after a duo session that involved a thoroughly abused piñata! We talk about our shared love of using humour in kink and the internet’s affect on negotiation. We discuss active submission and the effort that goes into giving up control. There’s some expectation management talk about not getting ahead of yourself (and ourselves!) while planning a session, having a flexible approach and not taking yourself too seriously while still having achievable goals in scenes.
During our chat, I have a revelation about high protocol sessions and their ability to deconstruct consent in a session. We cover the difficulty of trying to communicate with people who are in subspace and navigating the myriad of ways we interface with other people’s expectations, be it verbal or non-verbal. We also talk about hot oatmeal, unorthodox dick peels and some slime brainstorming for future WAM sessions.
It’s always so fun hosting scenes with Aspasia the Great and picking her (very knowledgable brain) afterwards. Keep your eyes peeled for Aspasia’s upcoming substack and check out her website, Aspasia.ca. If you’re interested in a experiencing a duo, you can book through her site or mine, Bastienne.ca. Here’s all Aspasia’s internet places:
Website: Aspasia.ca
Substack Newsletter: AspasiaTheGreat.substack.com
Twitter: @AspasiaTheGreat
Clips4Sale: Villa Aspasia
SextPanther: Aspasia The Great
WishList: Aspasia’s Side Quests
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Stay kinky and I’ll chat at you again next Tuesday! :)
xo Bastienne
